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Out to all my friends!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by Zūn Jìng, Apr 11, 2008.

  1. Zūn Jìng

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    So I pretty much came out to all my friends today. I changed my MySpace orientation to gay and posted a bulletin saying that I updated it. So I came out to all my friends and I'm going to send my mom an email with a PFLAG pamphlet attached to it. It took me half an hour to hit the confirm button. But yea lol I did it. Thanks to everyone at EC that helped out!:grin:

    -Dan!(*hug*)
     
  2. Tim

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    Wow, Congrats! That's like the biggest step ever~ :astonished:

    Hope everything goes well.
     
  3. Quitex

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    Yay!!!! *^gives cookies and milk!^*








    PS. Myzou's red hair is soooo HOT *-* :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: :slight_smile:
     
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    Congrats dude!
     
  5. spazz33

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    dude thats awesome, i wish i could get the balls up 2 doing that
     
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    Awwww, Dan!!.....that was a very brave thing to do!!!!! (*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*)<- Hugs!! if you couldnt tell :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Fantastic Dan!!!!!!:thumbsup: :eusa_danc
     
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    Hmm...I'm now somewhat curious about how that email turns out.

    Either way, you're a year younger than I am and you came out to your friends (and parents?) before I did. That takes some work.
     
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    that's great! be sure to give us updates on how everyone reacts!
     
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    OMG!!! 2 friends to all of them in one day?! That's like AMAZING! (kinda makes me feel slow though......)
    Tell us how everything goes ok!
     
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    Wow. I wish I had the guts to do that.. Congratulations!
     
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    congratulations!
    great show of courage!
     
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    that is amazing, i wanan do that!
    wow man! CONGRATS!!!
     
  15. Urman

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    congrats (!)
     
  16. wtan001

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    wow that's pretty kewl. i never tell my mon if i were u
     
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    wow you have so much courage i would have never done that at 13 WAY TO GO MAN keep us updated =)
     
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    Wow, congrats. That's pretty impressive for someone your age... or any age, actually. :eusa_clap
     
  19. Zūn Jìng

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    Ok. This absolutely sucks. The email didn't get sent and then my parents went through my text messages and were reading them. They now know I'm gay but the kept saying stuff like "Dan, your just confused" "Its just a phase" "Maybe you should go see the counselor at school. I tried sending her the email early this morning. I don't know why but it didn't send. Which sucks even more because she doesn't believe me. Then when I told her not to tell my dad she walked into their room and shut the door. I can hear them talking right now. I just wanna swear at her so f***ing much. So pretty much this sucks and now I don't even know why she is telling them. She said I had her word that she wouldn't. So pretty much I just hate my parent's right now.
     
  20. Urman

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    There is a thread with the stages of denial.But when you and here alone sit down and talk to her and tell her what is on your mind make sure that you listen to what she has to say allthought you might not want to but try talk to her.I hope that helps