GAHHH I just told and it was badddd... I didn't plan to, it was spur of the moment thing... I was on myspace, and my friend since junior high morgan was on. and me and her always message. I haven't had to most amazing week...let alone year... and I just told her. On April Fool's, I posted a bulletin that said "im gay" then inside it said "April Fool's" and people actually were like "ahahaha good one!" well today we were joking and she said "but remember, your gay!" so I messaged back saying "i wasnt kidding, i really am..." she didn't message back and she just logged off. She didn't delete me, just logged off... awww man, im freaking out now...:bang: :bang: :bang:
Please, do not fall into conclusions of why she logged off. Even if it shows as if she logged off because of your confession, you won't ever be sure. Send her an email, or a message my myspace or bulletin or however it's called (I'm not a myspace person). I guess she was just shocked by it and couldn't find any words. Do not panic. She will come back and explain herself, she was just shocked maybe. (*hug*)
At least she didn't send you hate mail. Give it time, I'm sure it isn't as bad as you think. For all you know, she might have been called away from the computer for an emergency or something...
I know what it looks like and it is easy to jump to conclusions but I think a last tentative on your part is required. Send her an MSN ans ask her simply if she logged off because you said you were gay. If she answers yes, well at least you will know, if she doesn't answer in the next few days well that is pretty clear as well, but maybe, just maybe she will explain her action. Was it a shock reaction? was she called away? did she have an electrical problem? I know where we live in France in the country internet regularly cuts us off especially in bad weather. If you try to look at the good side, if she really did log off, she is not the person or the friend that you thought she was and it is probably better to know now that to go on thinking that she is someone you can count on. I am really sorry for your pain (*hug*)
Well, don't do too much second-guesses. It's unhealthy. If you really want to know is she getting traumatized or not, go and at least call her cell phone or house number. Then you actually know whether she's okay with your coming outs or not.
i think you should try to calmly wait and see, if not call her to see why she logged off at that very moment- i don't know the girl, but something tells me she doesn't hate you. but for now, just think positive! Try not to worry!
ohhh thank god.. she came back and said she doesnt hate me and she wont tell anyone... ohhh thank god! I AM NOW OUT TO 9 FRIENDS!! WOOO!!! haha thanks guys! (!) (!) (!)
Sorry about that, Just hope that it was a problem with the computer, That is really why I dont want to come out though because of Rejection but still it might not be rejection, Iv had laods of people talking online and then all of a sudden they stop talking through a conversation, Just think positive!
Phew, I bet that was a relief!!!! A lesson to us all not to jump to conclusions and give people a bit of time.
i was scared when i started to read the thread, but thank god it had a happy ending! congratulations!!
