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I did it! ^_^

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by Helen, Apr 15, 2008.

  1. Helen

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    So I told my mother that I'm bisexual. She's perfectly okay with it (thinks it might be a phase, but she'll accept that it might not be), and has told me that she'll support me, whatever I am ^____^
     
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    Yay, congrats! That's awesome, and great news!
     
  3. Gumtree

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    OMG, Great news :grin:

    The first person is always the hardest (especially if its your mother!)

    You have passed your biggest milestone on the road to coming out, congratulations!! :slight_smile:
     
  4. JSG

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    Congrats on coming out to your mother !! :grin:
     
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    Congratulations!

    I think the "phase" response is inevitable at your age, but she has accepted that it may not be which is great.
     
  6. Bader

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    YAY! thats greaatttttttt !
     
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    Awesome! You couldn't ask for a much better response! :slight_smile:
     
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    Congrats :grin:

    where in dubai are you from? heatqueen lives there too. :slight_smile:
     
  9. Helen

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    I know she does, she's one of my best friends :slight_smile:

    And Dubai isn't really that big, I'm not from a particular area or anything.
     
  10. Zūn Jìng

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    Congrats!(!)
     
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    I was just thinking this same thing before I read this.

    Anyways Congrats! (!)
     
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    I've always wondered if it was harder to come out as gay or bisexual, with homosexuality being under more aggressive fire from the public but bisexuality being seen more commonly as a phase or "transitional step" to hetero- or homosexuality.

    Either way, parents are hard no matter who you are. Great job.
     
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    Congratz!!! :grin:
     
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    Congrats!
     
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    OMG HELEN CONGRATZ!!! :grin: Well done you, I know you were worried about telling her!! (!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)
     
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    That's fantastic, congratulations! Telling my parents was the hardest of everything for me, and my mum still thinks I'm going through a phase too.
     
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    That's awesome news. Telling your mom is the first biggest step imo. Friends are easy lol. My sister and brother don't believe me but are coming to accept it. They all come around in time.
     
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    that's great that was a big step
     
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    That's so awesome! It sounds like you both handled it well. I'm really pleased ^_^ (*hug*)
     
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