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Came out to my sister!!!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by ChristianHipstr, Jun 4, 2013.

  1. ChristianHipstr

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    I finally came out to my sister! I always talk to her, so hiding this from her was getting too hard. I finally came out to her just an hour ago! Here's the conversation:

    Me: "Summer,I really need to talk..."

    Sister: "I'm going to be at work till 9, I can still text as long as I don't have a customer."

    Me: "Ok. I need to tell you something, but promise it stays between us? And promise it won't change anything between us?"

    Sister: "Are you pregnant?"

    --Oh her sense of humor..--

    Me: "No, I'm not Sarah (our sister) lol, but just promise?"

    Sister: "I promise?"

    Me: "Ok. Summer, this is what I need to tell you... The past few years I've been very confused. For quite a while, I've thought of both men and women as attractive, but never have thought much of it until recently. I have a pretty big crush on one of my friends, his name is Cole... Now seeing that I actually "like" guys as much as or more than i like girls, I've come to realize I'm probably bisexual... Your the person I'm closest to in our entire family and I felt you'd be the most understanding and supportive..."

    --What felt like forever--

    Sister: "Wayne, I'll call you when I get off of work. I'm so proud of you and love you no matter what. This won't change anything between, nothing would.. Unless you murder someone, that's too far.. I promise i won't tell Nana or Sarah, but if you need any help coming out to them I'll be here."



    OH MY GOOOODDDDD. Those words felt so good I literally sat there just smiling at my phone for 10 minutes.

    I also want to thank the EC community so far for helping me accept who I am and giving me the motivation to do this :slight_smile:
    I think my next outage will be with my gay uncle, I'm not real close to him, but I need advice with boy troubles damnit! lol :icon_wink
     
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  2. Pret Allez

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    It must feel wonderful to have your sister's unconditional support. Good display of courage, brother.

    ~ Adrian
     
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    Congrats!!! I bet that did feel pretty wonderful! Glad to see your sister was just as supporting as mine :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: She sounds like she will be a wonderful support system, she will probably make the whole experience easier for you! And again as Adrian above me said: Good display of courage, brother!

    ~Zack~
     
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    So happy your sister is supportive...you're lucky to have her.

    Congratulations! You deserve a pat on the back for your bravery!

    Good luck with future coming outs