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She Came Out To Me. Then I Came Out To Her.

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by remainnameless, Jun 15, 2013.

  1. remainnameless

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    Holy. Freaking. Shit. This might be long guys lol. I had made a thread about wanting to come out to my step-sis this weekend (our parents aren't even married still they just live as a couple, but we act like a brother and sister). I did it it. Last night. When last night came we were hanging out alone in my sisters room. Earlier that day, Jaz had mentioned something like "I have to tell you something BIG tonight" I was like "wow, me too...". So later that night we were sitting on her bed and she randomly played a song ("Can't Help Falling In Love" by Ingrid Michaelson) and I started singing along and she was like"you know this!?". She then was like here watch this video it's where I found that song.

    (You won't believe this it was crazy) It was a video of a lesbian couple dancing at a wedding, and she basically told me she was bi leaning towards girls. After that she was like so what were you going to tell me? I instantly just said "I'm gay". She didn't believe me at first, she thought I was kidding. It took some convincing, including me telling her I always thought the poster of the guy on her wall was cute LOL. After I had convinced her she started dancing around the room like "I knew it! I knew it! Holy fucking shit I always knew it!!". I was like ya and this just made my life lol. I was like holy crap I feel like I'm on cloud 9. We laid there and talked about stuff, and then again all today we've talked about stuff. She then told me earlier that she had lied about being bi, she was actually 100% lesbian. I'm so happy it's ridiculous. We've already talked about going to gay pride together and everything (when we get older). It really could not have gone any better. We are closer than ever now ^_^

    The whole thing has been surreal and awesome, it feels so good to have someone know and be so completely accepted.
     
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    It's great that you have such a good relationship with your step-sister! (Mine's a total b****) Congraltulations! (*hug*)
     
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    Awww! Lucky guy :slight_smile:

    I wish someone would come out to me so I can come out to them too.. :bang:
     
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    dude thats AWESOME! :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:ride:
     
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    Awesome, congrats! :slight_smile:
     
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    Omg I had the same thing happen to me with my friend, he was like I'm bi , so I said yeah me too. But that, that's freakin awesome
     
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    Hell ya. God this has been one amazing weekend.
     
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    Wow! Congrats! Sounds pretty sweet!!!
     
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    AWWWW I have to share this with you guys, my sister left this note in my bag when I left (I was visiting my dads btw, I will probably go back next week sometime)

    Dear T,

    Hey I want you to know that I love you. I'm happy you're so understanding and accepting. You can always tell me anything I will never judge or tell. Come back over soon, I need you more than you think! -Jaz
    p.s. Rainbow :slight_smile: LGBT

    ---------- Post added 16th Jun 2013 at 06:21 PM ----------

    Best sis in the frikkin world.
     
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    Congratulations! So happy for you to share such closeness with your sister.
     
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    I'm happy for you both. Congrats.
     
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    (!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)so many reasons to banana(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)
     
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    That's so great!!
     
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    Wow! what a great surprise!