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I did it!!!!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by Anomander, Jun 29, 2013.

  1. Anomander

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    So I finally came out to my best friend. I wrote him a letter and emailed it to him just now. I posted the letter awhile ago. Waiting for a response... I cannot believe I did this. =/ so nervous
     
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    (!):eusa_clap:eusa_clap I'm happy for you! That's a scary thing to do. it's also very freeing. If you don't hear from him in a few days I would contact him to follow up,
     
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    Congratulations!! :eusa_clap:icon_bigg:eusa_danc:slight_smile:(!)
     
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    Alright so now that I am not drunk anymore and scared shitless... If any one remembers my plan was to come out to him at Pride. It turns out he invited a bunch of other people and so I knew I had to tell him another way and figured this would be the best approach. Luckily everything I had written and proof read a million times was done so sober so I was able to bit the bullet while drunk. I then texted him that he had a really important email to read...

    About 5 minutes later he called me like twice and I couldn't pick up. So he sent me 4 super awesome supportive texts and got me to pick up. I cried on the phone for like an hour and all I got from him was complete acceptance and love. It was the most amazing thing ever. I've spent so long imagining all these worst possible scenarios and have been humbled my a truly amazing friend. A friend that now I know will be at my side forever no matter what as is absolutely going to keep my secret.

    I honestly still cannot believe I told him... Idk if its really set in yet. But IM OUT and have a great amount of support from my first. woooo

    Thanks everyone I could have never done it without all the support I found on here. I never thought I would ever make a post that would warrant a dancing banana but...

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    Congratulations! Good feeling, isn't it?
     
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    Glad it went so well Anomander!
     
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    Feels great, doesn't it?

    This definitely warrants a dancing banana, or a lot of them!
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    I know how it feels. I felt like I was going to be sick whenever I'd come out to someone. But CONGRATS!!!!!!!!!!!!! (!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)(!)
     
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    Congrats!
     
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    Congrats mate... I am sure it felt amazing and your friend is awesome!