:eusa_clap *Pats self on back* I did it! :eusa_danc I don't know....oh wow okay here's what just happened So my dad (okay he's not my real dad, real dad was an asshole but he's the closest thing to a dad i have and he's awesome) wanted me to go with him to pick up my little sister which i think was like a half an hour/45minute drive It was kinda awkward so okay there's this lesbian girl i am friends with and i stayed over her house a while back during "family issues" for days on end, and anyway well her and her girlfriend have been arguing over me cause this girl....well turns out she likes me, she told me before i just didn't really think it was true , so my dad asked how thing's were with...this friend so i told him, i trusted him enough to tell him... and he said "Oh do you think she likes you?" "Yep...well...yeah i guess" "Does she know your straight?".... *pauses* "Are you straight?" "It's complicated okay..." "Yeah?" "I don't want to talk about this" "Your bi?" "Lesbian" ....this goes on for a while with me cringing and hiding my head in my hands Then i finally say it "Transgender" :eek: I can't believe i said it he stares at me.... and i look out the window ashamed He looked confused and asked "How can you be transgender" I had to explain what transgender is....and how i felt, he then realized and we had a few awkward glances He asked if any of my sisters knew i felt this way, my 15 year old sister does, he asked if my mum knows, she does and now he does too We then had a big talk about..well everything and well He said he's happy with whatever makes me happy, he said as long as I'm happy, have a good job, am doing with what I want in life then it shouldn't matter who I'm with and whatever makes me happy :') He then started tearing up a little and patted me..with watery eyes Then my sister got in the car and now were home, it didn't feel like it did when i came out to my mum i felt...accepted with my mum i dunno it felt different but yeah i am happy i finally told him, i was so worried about ever telling him the most. Afraid he'd think i am a freak and blame my mum but he was great about it So yeah!! *Sings and dances to Diana Ross- I'm coming out* :eusa_danc (&&&) ---------- Post added 29th Jun 2013 at 01:42 PM ---------- Oh i forgot I Didn't answer him on the whole "weather i am attracted to guys or girls" I just said "Does it really matter?" I just told him the truth that i am questioning things right now...and am unsure about that but one thing i am sure of is i am trans-ftm
Thanks so much, all of you for the support. You are all amazing :') Thank you :icon_bigg (&&&) :eusa_danc
