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Ex-Gay and some similarities

Discussion in 'Current Events, World News, & LGBT News' started by Noah, Jan 15, 2009.

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Have you ever

  1. Looked at porn more than twice?

    66 vote(s)
    86.8%
  2. Experienced an absent, distant, or abusive father?

    28 vote(s)
    36.8%
  3. Had a sexual experience under the age of 16?

    23 vote(s)
    30.3%
  4. Tried drugs (hard or soft) more than once?

    20 vote(s)
    26.3%
  5. Been called names (gay/fag/etc) before coming out?

    49 vote(s)
    64.5%
  6. Wished you were the opposite sex?

    20 vote(s)
    26.3%
  7. Tried to be straight?

    52 vote(s)
    68.4%
  8. Had a great number of friends of the opposite sex when under the age of 16?

    41 vote(s)
    53.9%
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  1. Noah

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    I did an informal survey of ex-gay testimonies and noticed some surprising elements are often in common in their stories. Now I'm comparing the results with out glbt people.
    I'll post the results of my first survey when I get 17 responses to the poll.
    Thanks!
    (!)
     
  2. Noah

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    Also, the last question implies that you had very few friends of the same sex. Sorry for the confusion
     
  3. riddlerno1

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    Hey i was number 17!! whoo, however i do think you should wait till you have at least 30 or so people before looking at results. Its just we learnt in research methods ay uni that a poll needs at least 30 or so people for results to be significant. Just an idea though!
     
  4. Noah

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    Ok out of 17 people, the results were
    Now remember, this is only what they mentioned in their story. These numbers should be higher

    Porn: 8

    Absent/Abusive Father: 13

    Child Sex: 10

    Drugs: 4

    Name Calling: 9

    Gender Identification Issues: 3

    Continuing Temptation: 6

    Female Friends/No Male Friends: 10
     
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    wow only 2 didn't apply....
    haha oh well.
     
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    Nice, the ones I voted on are some of the highest. My father is still very much involved with the family and has never been abusive - almost the opposite. I'm the one who was distant to him.

    I've never wanted to be a girl, and although there was a very brief period where I wanted to be straight, it was before I accepted my sexuality and back when I was still hyperreligious, so I didn't vote on it.

    Still a sex and drug virgin.

    The rest I won't comment on.
     
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    In terms of sexual experience, does masturbation count?
     
  8. Noah

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    No, only with someone else
     
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    Wow...more people have watched porn than been called names?
     
  10. I've tried drugs more than once, my father is not here cause he was a druggie, and I've looked at porn more than once.
     
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    I love quizzes and surveys ! :grin:

    I've only "Had a great number of friends of the opposite sex when under the age of 16" and been called names.
     
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    My father is absent... coz he's dead... But he was pretty cool and definitely not abusive

    I've wished I was a guy before, coz then your parents don't give you 'if you dress like that, you'll be raped' lectures

    And I've tried to be straight before.

    Yup. I too love quizzes and surveys