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How many Lesbian friends to you have?

Discussion in 'Current Events, World News, & LGBT News' started by SuperNovaRoamer, Jan 22, 2009.

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If you're a gay guy, how many close Lesbian friends to you have? Vice versa for girls

  1. None

    33 vote(s)
    38.4%

  2. One to Five

    43 vote(s)
    50.0%

  3. Five to Ten

    5 vote(s)
    5.8%

  4. More than Ten

    5 vote(s)
    5.8%
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  1. SuperNovaRoamer

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    Hey ECers

    I was just thinking that I don't know many gay girls!! And I was wondering if this was common for gay guys..? i.e. How many close lesbian friends to you have?

    Conversely, for the gals, how many close gay male friends do you have compared to your lesbian friends?

    In any event, I think its time I rectified the situation!

    Pauli xox
     
    #1 SuperNovaRoamer, Jan 22, 2009
  2. Cassi

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    I have 1 gay friend and no lesbian friends in RL D:
    i wish the numbers were higher, but i just think it's cuz
    guys are so sexy it makes straight men go gay XD
     
    #2 Cassi, Jan 22, 2009
  3. MusicIsLife

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    I have 3 guy friends that are gay.
     
    #3 MusicIsLife, Jan 22, 2009
  4. kaster

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    I voted guys was that right, 3 gay males friends.
    I've got 2 Lesbian and 2 Bi female friends.
     
    #4 kaster, Jan 22, 2009
  5. Maddy

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    I have a lot more gay male friends than gay female friends.
     
    #5 Maddy, Jan 22, 2009
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    Me too :slight_smile:
    I don't know any lesbians, let alone being friends with them
     
    #6 Lychee, Jan 23, 2009
  7. ausgrl

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    I have a lesbian friend and know one gay guy
     
    #7 ausgrl, Jan 23, 2009
  8. riddlerno1

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    i only know one gay guy and no lesbians. Even the guy i know is someone i met through a support group.
     
    #8 riddlerno1, Jan 23, 2009
  9. BeautifulStranger

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    All of my lesbian friends are on EC

    To be honest, I usually end up hating lesbians I meet in person. They're usually totally stereotypical and butch... and for lack of a better word, complete dykes.

    But the lesbians here are so awesome.
    I have yet to meet an EC lesbian I dislike.
     
    #9 BeautifulStranger, Jan 23, 2009
  10. Markio

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    It turns out like most of my friends from high school were gay, and now that I'm out at college I have about two more gay friends, give or take another. I am aqcuainted with two lesbians and a bisexual administrator, but I don't think we're close enough to be called "friends". I did go dancing with this one girl, but aside from that I haven't seen her or hung out with her.

    I also have straight friends, if that makes a difference. :slight_smile:
     
    #10 Markio, Jan 23, 2009
  11. BitterEdge

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    I have two lesbian friends, a few bisexual girls I know whom are dating girls. I have like 5 male gay friends plus my bf and his gay friends....I feel like a personification of the word rainbow. O my cousin is a lesbian, I love her.
     
    #11 BitterEdge, Jan 23, 2009
  12. beckyg

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    I voted more than 10. :grin: And it works for gay guys or lesbians.
     
    #12 beckyg, Jan 23, 2009
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    I don't have any gay friends IRL (one guy in my school is bi, but we don't really talk)
    :frowning2:
     
    #13 interstella, Jan 23, 2009
  14. Amy

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    More than ten.
    I gave up counting.
    *shrugs*
    I just attract gay people.
     
    #14 Amy, Jan 23, 2009
  15. xballetxbeautyx

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    I have one lesbian friend and one gay friend. But I'm gonna start going to a LGBT youth group so hopefully that will change soon!
     
    #15 xballetxbeautyx, Jan 23, 2009
  16. Psychedelic Bookmarks

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    None, cos I'm hardly out. I do know some gay boys but I live so far from my LGBT youth group that I only see them about once every 3 months :frowning2:
     
    #16 Psychedelic Bookmarks, Jan 23, 2009
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    the job that i have.. over 50% of the staff are gay...
    so we play pick the straight person (then try and turn them)

    practicly all my friends are..
    tho i have a few friends from school who arent..
     
    #17 RENThead, Jan 24, 2009
  18. Kid Quasar

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    I know 3 gay guys, 1 bi guy, 2 bi girls, and 1 lesbian. GSA meetings :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
    #18 Kid Quasar, Jan 24, 2009
  19. HeronsStorm

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    I have one really close guy friend who just told me he was gay, and that's it. Don't really know anyone where I am. :icon_sad:
     
    #19 HeronsStorm, Jan 24, 2009
  20. Time

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    I know several bisexual girls, but no lesbians.
     
    #20 Time, Jan 24, 2009
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