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Before He Hired an Escort, Rekers Tried to Spank the Gay Away

Discussion in 'Current Events, World News, & LGBT News' started by Dan82, May 20, 2010.

  1. Dan82

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    http://blogs.miaminewtimes.com/riptide/2010/05/before_he_hired_an_escort_reke.php

     
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    This guy is all sorts of fucked up.
     
  3. Chip

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    What amazes me is that quacks like this have been allowed to continue to practice. Granted, 30 years ago, APA standards were very different, but the sort of harm and hurt this guy has done should not go unpunished. I hope that the boy described in the story, who attempted suicide, eventually got appropriate therapy and was able to come to terms with the appalling treatment he received from his parents and from Rekers.

    One of the commenters to the article makes an important point: Pavlov and Skinner never argued that their animals actually had a conscience or free will, and so it's not really sensible, even from a behaviorist perspective, to assume that any sort of behavioral conditioning would actually work to reduce or eliminate homosexual behavior.

    Reading artlcles like that really makes me angry, though.
     
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    if there is a face of hate it is a bad haircut and a silly moustache:

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    I rest my case
     
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    BAHAHA nice.

    As for the article...one thing, that kid who two years later manned up? Hmm you know, it could just be the fact that the kid was a KID who was GROWING UP. >_> And I bet if they like asked the kid if he's straight and the kid says yes, they'd say "this is proof" when really just because you exhibit feminine qualities when 4 years old does not mean you're going to be gay just as if you exhibit masculine qualities when 4 years old you're going to definitely be straight >_>

    Me? I played with both Power Rangers, Batman, and Beetleborgs....well ok that maybe was a bit gay....but it was still masculine. At the same time, I also played with Sky Dancers, and Sailor Moon. Yeah I wound up gay but no wonder I'm neither masculine or feminine, I'm just unique...just wanted to say that :slight_smile:
     
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    a 4 year old boy has as much sexuality as a broken blender.

    at that age, they arent thinking about sex, they are thinking about candy, rainbows, gi joes, and being afraid of their poops.
     
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    Hahahahaha! +1
     
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    But blenders can be really hot! :slight_smile:

    (Actually, i have to give you props for that, one of the most vivid comparisions I've heard in a while.)

    There's definitely evidence that sexual orientation attributes appear at a very early age, so the 4 year old thinking about rainbows might indeed turn out to be gay... but it certainly isn't sexualized at that point.

    And the really gaping hole in Rekers' logic is the logical jump that assumes that all gay men as children engaged in activities generally considered to be feminine (Easy Bake ovens, Barbies, etc). While there is a correlation, he's looking at an artifact or byproduct rather than a causal pattern. But most of those guys are dumbasses to begin with (even the ones with Ph.Ds) and so I wouldn't necessarily expect them to get that difference.
     
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    I can think of no better way to describe this than disgusting. What kind of parent would do this to their child? What happened to unconditional love?

    Scum of the earth.
     
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    You have to remember that 30 years ago, parents often deferred more easily than they do now to "professionals" who knew more. And then there's the experiments that Stanley Milgram did where he showed that people will do ridiculous things that are obviously harmful to others if they have the perception that someone more knowledgeable is telling them it's the right thing to do. So while I think the parents were dumb to go along with it, I can sort of understand why they might have done so.