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    Re: Priest Martin McVeigh 'Accidentally Showed Gay Porn' During Primary School Presen

    Oh those Catholics...
     
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    *bangs head on desk repeatedly* and yes...we're the sinners and perverts..
     
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    Re: Priest Martin McVeigh 'Accidentally Showed Gay Porn' During Primary School Presen

    Is it bad that I kinda chuckled? Like a "lol, this is really sad" kinda chuckle.

    I mean, he left the room, and came back, just to ask for donations. What.
     
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    Re: Priest Martin McVeigh 'Accidentally Showed Gay Porn' During Primary School Presen

    Hey, accidentally saving gay porn to your hard drive could happen to anybody, amirite?!
     
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    Re: Priest Martin McVeigh 'Accidentally Showed Gay Porn' During Primary School Presen

    There's a good article on pink news that breaks down the reaction to this story in terms of blame and quick condemnations.
     
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    Re: Priest Martin McVeigh 'Accidentally Showed Gay Porn' During Primary School Presen

    thank you Aya

    as a Catholic who struggles with being gay, or as a lesbian who is struggling with her Catholic faith, either way I still have a lot of empathy for that priest.

    I find it disturbing that:

    1. priests are often assumed to be pedophiles simply because some pedophiles have made use of the priesthood to gain access to children; most priests are not pedophiles, for the record.

    2. people do not believe or cannot respect an individual's decision to remain celibate in order to be a priest, monk or nun. it's possible and not always unhealthy - some people are called to celibacy and some are not. just because we aren't doesn't mean that they can't be.

    3. that in light of the pedophilia scandals of late, the Church is refusing to ordain or welcome to religious orders anyone who has same-sex attraction - in other words, suggesting that a gay person is less able/likely to make a committed choice to be celibate

    4. people seem to assume that if he's gay, he's probably a pedophile. homosexuality and pedophilia are completely different things. no we should not lock up all priests. no we should not lock up all homosexuals.
     
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    Re: Priest Martin McVeigh 'Accidentally Showed Gay Porn' During Primary School Presen

    rofl
     
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    Re: Priest Martin McVeigh 'Accidentally Showed Gay Porn' During Primary School Presen

    It does make good points. Especially parallels between this case and the story of Julie Amero. Yes, it could have been an accident or a prank, or even deliberate sabotage. And yes, there's no love lost between us and top hierarchs of the Catholic Church... But that doesn't mean giggles at a gay Catholic accidentally outing himself help anyone. If it's indeed what he did. Not all gay priests and parsons are Teds Haggards (although if that's what he was, well, he just've reaped what he sow.)
     
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    Re: Priest Martin McVeigh 'Accidentally Showed Gay Porn' During Primary School Presen

    Whatever else I might say, and whatever else might be said, about this thread, I couldn't help literally laughing out loud just from reading the title.
     
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    Re: Priest Martin McVeigh 'Accidentally Showed Gay Porn' During Primary School Presen

    ^^^^ This
     
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    Re: Priest Martin McVeigh 'Accidentally Showed Gay Porn' During Primary School Presen

    At the root of it is a priest with gay porn.

    Need we say more?

    Personally, I think someone who takes a vow of celibacy, which means they can never marry, are not suposed to have sex, and never are suposed to father children, should not comment on sex, marriage, or raising of children.
     
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    Re: Priest Martin McVeigh 'Accidentally Showed Gay Porn' During Primary School Presen

    :roflmao:
     
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    Re: Priest Martin McVeigh 'Accidentally Showed Gay Porn' During Primary School Presen

    I'm actually disappointed that people are laughing about this. Almost as if it's only the fact he is a priest that gives you permission to laugh or look down on it. I think the real problem here is that porn was accidentally shown to kids. Which should be a problem regardless if it was straight or gay porn. The fact that the priest might be gay should not be the issue many are making it out to be.


    A quote from the link that was posted (in case you didn't read it):
    It may or may not be his. And if it is, who cares? I'm not defending his actions (he should have been more responsible), just him. Because even though he works for an organization that condemns homosexual practices (read: not homosexuality), I can't hate or laugh at anyone who might be gay. So he might be gay and christian, which might be why he is a priest living a celibate life. It's his choice and his life. And isn't supporting that notion of "being who you are regardless of what others think" one of the biggest messages the LGBT organizations stand for?
     
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    Re: Priest Martin McVeigh 'Accidentally Showed Gay Porn' During Primary School Presen

    Really? My family is Catholic (I myself have been more or less an atheist for years now) and my Dad - a very strict Catholic - often uses the argument gay people are meant to become preists (i.e. God gives people sexual urges that they aren't allowed to fulfill as a sign that they should become celibate and join the presithood). I'm surprised he missed something like this, actually, and I wonder where he got that argument from.
     
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    Re: Priest Martin McVeigh 'Accidentally Showed Gay Porn' During Primary School Presen

    I've looked it up once before. Gay men, strangely enough, are explicitly disallowed from the priesthood no matter how celibate they can be.

    Your dad's argument makes complete sense, but he's forgetting how non-inclusive the Church truly is.
     
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    Re: Priest Martin McVeigh 'Accidentally Showed Gay Porn' During Primary School Presen

    I always giggle at the insinuation of "dont criticize the catholic hierarchy for the behavior of the catholic hierarchy" mentality.
     
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    Re: Priest Martin McVeigh 'Accidentally Showed Gay Porn' During Primary School Presen

    You said in better and nicer sounding than I could, so I'll go with this.
     
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    Re: Priest Martin McVeigh 'Accidentally Showed Gay Porn' During Primary School Presen

    It's not really that. A man no one here knows anything about (beyond the facts in the article) allegedly did something really stupid and really creepy. Yes, the fact he happens to be a priest (and might be gay) adds certain humorous quality to the incident. Yes, Catholic hierarchy has a despicabe tendency to whitewash its members for far, far worse offences. But no, it doesn't mean he's automatically guilty unless proven innocent.
     
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    Re: Priest Martin McVeigh 'Accidentally Showed Gay Porn' During Primary School Presen

    His laptop was stolen before an investigation could be copmleted. Which is totally and unequivocally non-suspect and innocent...

    ...just saying.