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Trigger Warning: WI Lawmaker Makes Unsurprising and Inappropriate Comment

Discussion in 'Current Events, World News, & LGBT News' started by Pret Allez, Oct 11, 2012.

  1. Pret Allez

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    Related to queer rights in that this guy comes from the same party that our political enemies are going to vote for. Hopefully remarks like this will further damage that party's reputation so that we will not suffer further degradation of our human rights. You better believe it's getting personal.

    Did you hear the one about the Republican politician who made an outrageous comment about rape and then just kept talking himself into a hole? No, not that one.

    It starts off more confusing than anything else. Last year, Wisconsin state Rep. Roger Rivard–who has earned the endorsement of Paul Ryan–told a newspaper, in the context of discussing the case of a teenager charged with sexual assault after having sex with an underage girl, that his father always used to tell him that “some girls rape easy.” That sounds like it’s probably horribly offensive, but I don’t really know because I can’t even begin to guess what it means. Well, yesterday Rivard assured the Milwaukee-Wisconsin Journal Sentinel that his comments were take out of context and offered this full and enlightening explanation. Let’s savor it, shall we?

    He told the Journal Sentinel that his father had advised him not to have premarital sex, and he took that seriously.

    Alright, so his dad decided to keep up the pretense that there was a chance in hell that his son would actually not have sex before marriage. Kinda shitty parenting, if you ask me, but hey, apparently this is a myth that many people, even today, are very invested in maintaining.

    “He also told me one thing, ‘If you do (have premarital sex), just remember, consensual sex can turn into rape in an awful hurry,’ ” Rivard said.

    Well, this is actually promising. Right, so you’re making out with a girl and things are heating up but then suddenly she tells you to stop? And you’re confused because you thought everything was going well, but, as dad reminded you, even if someone said “yes” to one thing, they might change their mind and you need to stop–or else it’s rape. That must be what he meant, right?

    “Because all of a sudden a young lady gets pregnant and the parents are madder than a wet hen and she’s not going to say, ‘Oh, yeah, I was part of the program.’

    Oh. Wait–let’s slow it down…

    “Because all of a sudden a young lady gets pregnant”

    As if by magic! Suddenly, this girl–I’m sorry, young lady–get’s pregnant. And this entirely unexpected twist is but tangentially related to the sex you were also partaking in and definitely has nothing to do with the fact that your dad, for all his advice about rape, neglected to mention that if you do have sex, you should remember to use protection.

    “and the parents are madder than a wet hen”

    Ok, turns out this is actually a real saying, not just another one of Papa Rivard’s nuggets of wisdom. Carry on…

    “and she’s not going to say, ‘Oh, yeah, I was part of the program.’”

    Duh! God forbid she’d admit to not only letting a boy get her knocked up but actually wanting to have sex herself! In Papa Rivard’s conservative worldview, it goes without saying that a woman wouldn’t want to own up to such a dirty, shameful thing. Thanks to that sexual revolution that probably happened around the time young Rivard inevitably started having premarital sex, this worldview isn’t quite as prevalent among those of us actually living in 2012. But it’s clearly still with us. So what now?

    All that she has to say or the parents have to say is it was rape because she’s underage. And he just said, ‘Remember, Roger, if you go down that road, some girls,’ he said, ‘they rape so easy.’
    Emphasis added. Blog links were not preserved. Original at Feministing.
     
  2. ArcherySet

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    I consider myself a person of average intelligence, and yet I have no idea what I just read.
     
  3. AshenAngel

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    sorry, but same here...:bang:
     
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    It makes more sense if you follow the link rather than reading what I put in the spoiler text, as there are some links in that that were not preserved.