It probably got sent back a few pages. Try looking there. If that doesn't work, click on your username and go to statistics. Then click on "threads started by..." It should pop up there.
I found it here: http://emptyclosets.com/forum/chit-chat/81939-women-wearing-mens-shoes.html It looks like the forum software thought it was spam, since you're a new member and the post had a link it it, so it wasn't showing it. I took care of that.
