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How can you tell if someone is gay or not?

Discussion in 'Entertainment and Technology' started by asiansausage, Jul 19, 2016.

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  1. asiansausage

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    Hi everybody, I'm new here in this forum and come from Germany.
    A few days ago I saw this video below in youtube and found him really attractive... I hope he's gay too... :kiss:
    I know it's stupid question but from your experience, can you tell if someone is gay or not based on his appearance or a bit of girly hand gestures? Any opinion would be appreciated :icon_bigg
    Here is the video:
    [YOUTUBE]gKIqNPIzTvw[/YOUTUBE]

    :bang:
     
    #1 asiansausage, Jul 19, 2016
  2. AyaseKishimoto

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    No, there are a bunch of guys who aren't masculine or women that are just a classic tomboy and they could be perfectly Heterosexual, those are just expressions... The only way you can know is asking them.
     
    #2 AyaseKishimoto, Jul 19, 2016
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    Unfortunately, there's no way to tell if someone is gay or not unless they come out and say it. All the stereotypes in the world can't tell you someone's sexual orientation... there's no indicator beyond hearing it straight from them.
     
    #3 britishatheart, Jul 19, 2016
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    Herzlich Wilkommen...

    You can't really tell about everyone, specially when they are lesbians. I seem to have a gaydar for men, but I'm sure I must have missed quite a few.

    Just ask as they said... If they want to tell you, they will...
     
    #4 Michael, Jul 19, 2016
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    You could just ask. Not everyone is a walking stereotype.
     
    #5 Daydreamer1, Jul 19, 2016
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    It's not always easy to tell. Even with gay guys there are a lot that are masculine and "pass" for straight. Girly straight men exist too, aren't they called metrosexuals?
     
    #6 Creativemind, Jul 19, 2016
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    You can't always tell, especially if you're just going off of appearance. The only way to be sure is to ask the person, as not everyone looks like or fits into certain stereotypes.
     
    #7 L0ser, Jul 19, 2016
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    I can't tell. I actually had a crush on a gay guy once. Oops.
     
    #8 Libra Neko, Jul 21, 2016
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