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help i keep geting in truble for no reson

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by djone12, Jul 7, 2013.

  1. djone12

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    i dont know what to do my cuz keeps asking me what websit im on all the time when im on ec i cant tell her becase she will tell evry 1 i know to my family there is no consepte of personel privcy so my mom knows i dont tell her so she asums it is porn and im grounded ontil i tell evry one in the house what site im on and she cheks it out but the problem is my family is very homophobic and hates gay peaple i dont know wate to do plese help
     
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    Ask them to respect your privacy, perhaps? If you're grounded for using the internet... Well, it sounds quite silly to me.

    You could always come up with another site that you go on. That wouldn't be a complete lie. Ex. Yahoo Answers or TV Tropes or something similarly large that you look at from time to time.
     
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    I would suggest finding an other site and making an account and stuff and telling them that that's what your on. It might not work but its worth a try.
     
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    Alt-Tab into another browser window?
    That is what I do to combat wandering eye-balls.
     
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    well if you want a really elaborate lie, simply tell them that you are on a site such as reddit.com or 9gag. Then if they call you out on that lie, simply lie and say that you recently got into a manga called Naruto, and you're reading the forums (just search a random naruto forum), and that you were too ashamed about the fact that you like manga so you lied and said you were on reddit.com :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: a lie disguised with another lie #inception
     
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    I have the same problem I just keep a second tab open to something like youtube and switch to it if anyone asks or looks.
     
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    1 thang is that thay dont thank i shold have any privicy thay dont trust me just becas im 13 iv never goten in truble thay say its just a phase thay read my text to my frends that know im gay and some if them are too but i cant ask or talk to them and thay get suspichus
     
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    No offense but can you use grammar if you can?It is hard to read some words...
     
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    + spellcheck

    Although I'm not sure if spellcheck would be able to figure it out..
     
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    Your mother is trying to do the right thing. It's *much* better to have a parent concerned about their 13 year old kid watching porn on the internet than having a mother who doesn't care at all.

    Unfortunately, in this situation, it's tough because you aren't ready to come out.

    I don't recommend elaborate lies and ridiculous stories involving manga or anything like that. I think staying as close to truth as possible is best. So maybe keeping another tab open and claiming to be looking at that one is the best for the moment.
     
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    If you use Google Chrome you can open Incognito so what you do can't be tracked once you exit the browser. And like what everyone has suggested ALT-TAB can be lifesaver in many ways.

    And if you ever feel uncomfortable at home or what not, I suggest going for a walk to just simply get out for awhile. Being 13 is very young and you're simply quite limited to what you can do at this point in your life.
     
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    My bad, did not realise you were 13 :/
     
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    thanks sorry about grammer i dont have a computer i us a dsi to get on the internet so i cant pull up 2 tabs
     
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    Hey,
    I'm sorry your parents think it's a phase. That's the worst! =\\\
     
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    Then can't you just lie and say you were playing a game, or painting a picture or something?
     
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    it sucks but no i dont have anyy games i got the dsi from 1 of my frends at school for $5 so i dont have any games just got it for internet and cant downlode any thang because the parent setings are on the mem is whiped clean so i dont have flipnote or any thang just game slot and internet