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Let it go

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by Toshi, Jul 9, 2013.

  1. Toshi

    Toshi Guest

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    I'm very new to a relationship with a guy. Few months ago, I've met
    a man online and started to go on dates. He was my first date ever.
    The chemistry between us was very strong. I was very attracted to him.
    We dated for about one and half months. And we knew that we're gonna
    have lots of challenges but decided to be boyfriends.

    He is very sweet and understanding, also very honest.
    I had never had a boyfriend before, but he has lots of experiences.
    The fact that he has lots of experiences with other guys sometimes
    upsets me even though I totally understand in my head that it is the past.
    I want to let it go and get over it. I'm trying to be ok with it. But it's still hard...

    Do you have any advice?
     
  2. bagginses

    bagginses Guest

    Yep, same shit happened to me. Except my guy didn't like me like that.

    If you believe your guy does like you a lot then you should let the past be the past.
    Unless he can't let go of the past, then you should confront him.
     
  3. Toshi

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    Thank you.

    Yes, we're very into each other. I should let the past be the past.
    He was going to introduce his ex-boyfriend to me as his friend. So I was very
    stressed about it... His ex's living in another state and was going to visit here, but
    he ended up not coming. So I got extra time to be ready until the next time.

    I think I just need to focus on the presence, not the past..