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I had no idea

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by lovehatelive, Aug 12, 2013.

  1. lovehatelive

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    There is this good looking boy, he is bi, he hasn't come out to anyone as far as I know, he found out I was bi, he kind of uses me, at first it was just a kiss, then a snog, and slowly it built up, now he wants a bj, what do I do, I don't want to say no! But I feel like I'm being pushed!:bang::help:
     
  2. AKTodd

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    Then say no. And make it clear what pace you're comfortable with and what your boundaries are. If he won't respect your comfort than he's not worth your time.

    Todd
     
  3. endear

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    I agree. No one has the right to push u into something you do not feel comfortable with.