Dating/flirting advice for a lesbian freshman...?

Find friends, get close with them, and something might start!

If you are out, then people will now, and other lesbians will now, so if they like you and they know you are lesbian they might ask you out.

It's all a guessing game but good luck!

 

I think the best advice I can give you is this: Don't look! Lol. I find that if one just goes with the flow and coasts along, one has a better chance than if one were to try and consciously look for a girlfriend that being said, does your school have an lgbtq club? If so, join it! And get to know people ^.^ don't put too much pressure on yourself to date someone, just try to make friends first. I mean, being single your 9th grade year won't be the end of the world, lol. You're still young good luck with your school year!

 

I just have to say, wow you are brave! I've never had a girlfriend, so here's just some general good advice. I reccomend joining your school's GSA, if they have one. IF you know of any other lesbians at your school, try making friends with them. You never know what might develop. ^-^

 

First of all... *loud whooping and clapping* YOU GO, GIRL. YOU ARE BRAVE.

As for flirting: Stay confident. That is my number one rule that I tell everyone. Convince yourself that your not scared shitless, if you are. Be open. Be friendly. Be 'cool' - not a douchey kind of cool, but be kind of that person who's really nice and a great person to hang out with. That last part is because you are.

That's the most advice I can give you on ACTUAL flirting, apart from the obvious (but stated for caution) advice of NEVER saying pick up lines.

If you go to a GSA, you'll probably be a lot safer, though, if flirting with girls. But I think that's been stated already.

Apart from that... Good luck! And have fun.

 

^^^^Everything you said, I'm in the same situation.
Do people react weirdly to lesbian couples in a public high school?