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what does she mean by that

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by michaelman, Aug 20, 2013.

  1. michaelman

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    i told my girlfriend that i was by one time and she said i dont care as long as u dont chet on me what does tha mean?!
     
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    It means she is accepting of your sexuality but she still expects a monogamous relationship. That's cool she is accepting of who you are! :slight_smile:
     
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    I think she was being quite clear and literal.
     
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    oh and i ment bi not by
     
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    It means exactly what she said.
     
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    Yeah, it sounds like she means "That's ok with me as long as you don't cheat on me with a guy." It kinda follows the misconception that bisexuals are "greedy" and want to sex up both men and women.

    So, good news for you, she is ok with it. Just don't cheat on her!
     
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    Nothing to worry about. Just don't cheat on her....
     
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    wait wait wait so that means i cant go out with any other guy that realy sucks
     
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    Not if by "go out" you mean go on a date/have sex etc. If you want that, stay single, or find a girlfriend/boyfriend who is OK with open relationships (other bi people are usually more understanding about this).
     
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    NO CHET, YOU SHOULD KNOW NO!

    CHET=NO.

    Really though your 14. If you want her in your life you will have to respect that however both of you will have a lot of self discovery and development in your life that will to be honest change things dramatically as you get older.

    Don't "cheat" just because you can however this can be an opening to delve into deeper aspects of sexually and it's influence. However your 14 so I wouldn't worry about it.

    People can adapt their views and accommodate things however you must be upfront about everything concerning that. Being deceitful will not aid anything.

    Bisexuals can be completely monogamous if they want, it's an orientation/sense of identity/attraction not a lifestyle.

    Good luck in life, try and do safe, productive things. :slight_smile:.
     
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    thanks convoy and im not looking for sex :icon_redf i just whant someone to spend time with and ill like to stay vergin