Hi~ For those who haven't read it, please quickly skim through my last post about this "friend." http://emptyclosets.com/forum/famil...ship-friend-doesnt-get-hints.html#post1633043 Anyway, I somewhat did what people recommended for my "friend" wanting to hang out. I told her I was really busy and all. Later I was talking to another friend who had also been invited to hang out and she said she might not be able to go. I said I hoped that V wouldn't be too mad that I couldn't go. My friend responding and said (about V): "yea she sent me an email saying that u might not care for ur friends as u find "trivial things" more important" I know that we weren't really friends but it still kinda hurt that she did this. :icon_sad:I was worried that she would talk about me to my other friends and it kinda looks like she is. What do you guys think? Should I confront V about it or leave it? Also, not sure if this is relevant, but I have marked social anxiety disorder, so I recently deleted my FB account as I needed some alone time. I haven't told anyone that I have social anxiety, but it seems I seem to come off as cold/uncaring to some of my buddies. Should I start to tell people I have a social disorder? :help:
I also have a fear of intimacy, phobias, and a dislike of touch. So in some ways, I know I am not an easy friend to hang out with... I haven't told any of my friends this either.