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Do I have a chance with fully straight girls

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by MrSmooth, Aug 29, 2013.

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  1. MrSmooth

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    As an ftm I tend to fall for straight girls and its happening again, Im really attracted to this girls personality I mean she's beautiful, Im just friends with her though and she is still trying to understand the whole trans thing, And she really is trying to understand, But sometimes I feel like I can never get her because of me being trans, And probally because she talks about how good some bio guys look, I feel intimidated I guess is the word I'm looking for, And then it also makes dysphoric that I can't just talk to girls like a normal guy, Idk what to do I'm stuck:bang:
     
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    It really depends; there's no other way to say it. But there are definitely very accepting girls who are also very straight that would be fine with dating someone who's trans.
    Second: I'm assuming this girl is a close friend, the way you describe her (correct me if I'm wrong). Give her some time. In what I've observed, close friends will generally become more comfortable with someone's sexuality/gender than casual friends or sometimes even family. Who knows? She might even return the feeling.

    Cheers, Mr. Smooth. Good luck.

    ~Sunshine
     
    #2 Sunshine Cries, Aug 30, 2013
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    Thanks
     
    #3 MrSmooth, Sep 4, 2013
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    I would give it time...I think it will probably be easier to understand where feelings lie once she and others fully understand everything.
     
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    That's true
     
    #5 MrSmooth, Sep 6, 2013
  6. TsurugiPrincess

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    I've often wondered the same thing about myself. If I could transition into a woman, would I have a chance with straight guys? Or would they have to be bisexual to consider me? It's a daunting challenge, but only time will tell.

    As for you, like what the others said, give it time. Only thing you can really do.

    Good luck! :slight_smile:
     
    #6 TsurugiPrincess, Sep 6, 2013
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    Alright I will give her time
     
    #7 MrSmooth, Sep 7, 2013
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