She is 14 years-old, i may mention that she acts all tomboyish, she is kind of goth, and told me she would to have a P!nk-like hairstyle, this may sound stereotypical, but the reason i'm just... you know... wondering, is because nothing too obvious like drawing anime girls doing cunnilingus on each other in different positions and that squeeze each others breasts, due to unclear reasons, and watching porn of girls shoving phallic objects or any non-safe-looking-insertable-such-as-a-nokia-phone-like item into their uteri, would may as well be something that all little girls go through, but then again i also used to make little plasticine figures of boys kissing each other and whatnot. From what i know one of her best friends is lesbian, also how do i know about these drawings you ask? well let me tell you that i love her artwork and she always shows me what she is drawing, even the unfinished and ugly looking sketches, that are not this erotic, but one day she was at her friend's house and i wanted to find the french dictionary she stole from me and there it was, the booklet. i wanted to see the previous drawings because they are really good and there they were girls being all lusty on each other. i slowly put it back and went back to my room and this has made me think about how do i become closer to her so she might not feel alone, then i remember how cold-hearted she is with me, she and i are like water and oil, worse than fire and ice, and maybe enemies till death, but we start to joke around but we mostly fight physically and verbally, so i don't think she will be coming out to me any time soon, if she were what i think she is... So i was just wondering (since i don't understand how female or even individual instincts work) is there a possibility that my sister might be lesbian or bisexual? gals what do you think? any advice?
There are so many reasons to draw anime lesbians that I wouldn't worry about it...if they looked like her maybe...
It's always a possibility. Rather than approach her about it, I would try to bond with her a little more. Then maybe confide something to her to open that door from your side. That way she'll know it's safe to come to you.
If one of he best friend is lesbian she might be drawing for her. Does it matter to you? Does it change anything between you?
that will be hard... she is the kind of person who is really picky with the people she chooses whom to share her secrets with, but i'll see what happens ---------- Post added 31st Aug 2013 at 01:47 PM ---------- that is one idea i had but her friend isn't that fond of art or drawings... well it does matter to me because she might be feeling like any person in the closet might be feeling! so i'm concerned about her feelings, i might hate her, but she is still my little sister i want her to be happy, and if she is lesbian or at least bisexual, it will change the cold looks we give each other because we share something that makes us look not so different and it might actually change my parents minds about LGBT people, we could both help each other out and maybe even come out at the same time to our parents. (even though the latter is a bad idea but still it would be great if she were L or B)
