So - my husband always knew I had "bisexual tendencies" since we met (13 years ago). I just recently admitted to him my true sexuality, which is really blind. I am and have been attracted to lots of different people, gender aside. I have been with other genders before I met and married him. He has been really accepting of it for the most part. How do I convince him, however, that just because I like other genders does not mean that: I want to or care to have a threesome. He can't see why not. I can't see why I would want to. As much as I am a pretty open person, I don't care to do that. Every time he brings it up I just say "okay with you and another guy" and he asks why I do that and I tell him because it is the most uncomfortable situation I can throw back at him that would bother him the way him bringing up another girl feels with me. He won't let it go. Yes, I am in an open marriage... no I don't want him to bring the woman home. Since I'm not game for it, he thinks that this whole "gender blind" thing is a fad and will go away. So now I am frustrated. Anyone else bisexual or pansexual or genderblind have a spouse or significant other who feels your orientation means you have no boundaries at all? How did you handle it?
