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First guy crush?

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by Epiphany101, Sep 3, 2013.

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    I guess it's strange to say, but I'm currently having my first guy crush at the moment.
    He's about my age, nice, cute and caring. He's religious, but is an advocate for LGBT.
    I've been wondering how he would react if I told him how I feel about him...but I'm also worried that he might be scared off.
    I want him to love me in return...Although i'm doubtful he does. :icon_redf
     
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    Is this guy a friend or just someone you know. If you told him and scared him off what is the worst that could happen?
     
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    A friend. Which makes it hard, doing so and being rejected would mean I'd have to come out of the Pansexual Closet.
     
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    Ah...well that does make it a bit more of a pain...on the other hand, if he's openly supportive of LGBT people and you don't come over as completely obsessed there's a reasonable chance it wouldn't wreck your friendship even if he did turn you down.
     
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    I'm more worried of how the news will be interpreted, I live in a small town....If my love was accepted then at least I would get something in return and it would be worth it.
    I feel uncomfortable with others knowing of my sexual preference.
     
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    Who else has to know? Is he likely to tell everyone you know?
     
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    I don't know...I think he's the kind of guy you could ask not to and he wouldn't.
    But that's still an assumption....Which could come back to bite me.