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how to approach someone you like.

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by JakeSteven, Sep 5, 2013.

  1. JakeSteven

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    I want to start something with this guy (most likly a freindship), but I don't know how to start talking to him! I duck at talking to guys! Please help!?!??

    -jp
     
  2. pinklov3ly

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    Well, hello there fellow Michigander! Welcome to EC! You've come to the right place because I'm sort of an expert at approaching women. Even though, I will admit I've lost some of my mojo :grin:

    Anyway, just give him a compliment and take it from there. It's a great ice breaker and opens the door for a conversation. However, because he may be taken by surprise, you have to think of something to talk about. Like, new movies that were just released, games etc. Good luck!
     
  3. LILuke

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    Start by talking to him in just a friendly manner, if you can't even carry a normal conversation then how are you going to hope to have any kind of relationship with him? :slight_smile:

    Just be friendly and casual and see what happens! If you two get along then you'll find chemistry develops naturally.