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Why do straight women make out w each other when drunk or drinking?! Can't stand it!

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  1. sammy1

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    Ok so I got a question first of all my birthday was last weekend and I had my sister and her bf over ( both 34 yrs old) and several other people as well including my sisters friend and on my birthday that night wen everyone was drunk my sister and her friend started making out in my parents pool which is where my lil 'party' was held. Why the fuck do straight women do this with each other?!?!? It pisses me off to no end I don't care how drunk u are...to me it is rude especially since I myself have never been with anyone and because of this I get kinda depressed and angry and upset and seeing my sister and her friend do that in front of me just adds to the anger and everything else. I personally would NEVER kiss or make out w a woman no matter how drunk I am unless I was in a relationship with this woman. My sister only makes out w her friends wen she is drunk as far as I know and I know she loves having sex w her bf almost more than anything be caused she voiced that to me that same night... Anyways why do u think straight women do this ( drunk or not drunk)
     
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    Re: Why do straight women make out w each other when drunk or drinking?! Can't stand

    Because a mouth is just a mouth dontcha know
     
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    Re: Why do straight women make out w each other when drunk or drinking?! Can't stand

    I personally think that some of these woman are using it as an excuse to experiment with the same gender. Again, it's just a guess. I'm in my early high school years so I've never been in the situation before but this is just my personal opinion
     
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    Re: Why do straight women make out w each other when drunk or drinking?! Can't stand

    I disagree so would u make out w a woman? Or how about a homeless person? Therefore a mouth is not just a mouth that's my opinion at least
     
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    I was..kinda just kidding...
     
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    Re: Why do straight women make out w each other when drunk or drinking?! Can't stand

    Because it's a turn-on for straight guys. So while doing it, they feel sexy. It just takes a little alcohol to remove the "straight boundaries" and they start kissing each other in a slutty way often.
    Also because it's socially acceptable; two straight guys no matter how drunk they were they would never make out with each other because that would ruin their love life AND social life, so it's printed on the back of their heads that such things are unacceptable. Whilst women have it a bit easier.
     
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    Re: Why do straight women make out w each other when drunk or drinking?! Can't stand

    I guess that is hard for me to understand because I have never needed to experiment in order to know and understand my sexuality. And in my opinion u shouldn't have to experiment to find out who u r or wat u r into especially at my sisters age I think she just does it for fun and get her bf off
     
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    Re: Why do straight women make out w each other when drunk or drinking?! Can't stand

    In all seriousness though, I'm not sure. I've been drunk enough to not give a hoot what got me off, but haven't been in a situation to actually fool around with anything but my preferred sex. So I may say, sure I'd kiss a woman, but in reality I'm not so sure I would if the situation actually presented itself
     
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    Re: Why do straight women make out w each other when drunk or drinking?! Can't stand

    I kinda answered my own question here already I just wanted other opinions on this subject and if I am the only lesbian here who gets annoyed by seeing straight woman kiss
     
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    Re: Why do straight women make out w each other when drunk or drinking?! Can't stand

    No you're not the only one. What's even more irritating is when its traditional "good girls" that do it during a night on the town and laugh about it with their friends and make excuses that they're just living in the moment, then in their actual lives preach that homosexuality us unnatural. Seen that before. Its the same as straight guys preaching two men together is disgusting, but when they're at home they get off to lesbian porn.
     
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    Re: Why do straight women make out w each other when drunk or drinking?! Can't stand

    I agree. The way they kiss is very slutty. And it's sad that it is socially acceptable while actually being gay is not...as much as 2 straight women kissing to get their bf off...ugh :bang:

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    Yes exactly very irritating! I wish these women knew that it isn't just harmless and fun and games because to see my sister do that for the fun of it while I am pretty much locked in the closet therefore have no love life etc is really quite painful and I wish I woulda said somthing when I had the chance
     
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    Then say something! Maybe not right away, but when you are ready to come out of the closet, remember her doing that and say something about it, not to hold it against her, but to get your point across and healthily express your frustration
     
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    Re: Why do straight women make out w each other when drunk or drinking?! Can't stand

    Same with me so I'm not really sure why.
     
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    Re: Why do straight women make out w each other when drunk or drinking?! Can't stand

    Ok lol sorry

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    Yah I'll say something when the right time comes along for sure
     
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    Then say something! Maybe not right away, but when you are ready to come out of the closet, remember her doing that and say something about it, not to hold it against her, but to get your point across and healthily express your frustration
     
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    Re: Why do straight women make out w each other when drunk or drinking?! Can't stand

    It turns us straight guys on, And it should not matter you do you and let them do them, No big deal, You can't stop it I know plenty of girls at school have kissed eachother, Everybody's lives are different
     
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    Re: Why do straight women make out w each other when drunk or drinking?! Can't stand

    It pisses me off a lot when straight girls make out with each other while drinking. It makes it really hard for me to take girls who call themselves "bi" seriously, no offense to anyone. But they give bi people a bad name.

    I think they either do it because it turns on straight guys or because they want an excuse to kiss other girls. Or because they want to seem edgy and rebellious. Again, it really pisses me off.
     
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    Re: Why do straight women make out w each other when drunk or drinking?! Can't stand

    Sometimes girls might make out with other girls at parties because they're not entirely straight and actually want an excuse to make out with girls. The real telling factor might be whether they'd also want to make out with the girl if no-one else was watching.
     
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    Re: Why do straight women make out w each other when drunk or drinking?! Can't stand

    I don't know why they do it, I wish I had had that opportunity when I was 'strAight'. I don't see why it's worth getting so pissed off at...
     
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    To attract dudes or because the alcohol gives them beer goggles probably.
     
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