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I think my crush has a girlfriend...

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by GayTornado, Sep 23, 2013.

  1. GayTornado

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    John- Crush
    Jane- Girlfriend (?)

    Me: sends meme
    Him: hi, it's Jane
    Me: Oh
    Hi jane...?
    Question: Why do you have John's phone/ipod/whatever?
    Him: lol it john back
    Me: lol that was a bit awkward
    Him: lol
    Me: so what are you doing?
    Him: Noth
    Me: What have you been up to on your holidays so far?
    Him: Noth much gtg
    Me: bai

    He didn't even read my 'bai'
    ..

    Now if you excuse me EC, I need a hug before I cry myself to sleep....
    *I know I might be overreacting but that's how I roll*
     
  2. Twinkletoes81xx

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    Aww, I know how you feel it's happened to me too. You might feel sad now, but there will be many other crushes in the future. It will take some time, hang in there. (*hug*)
     
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    I've been there. Try not to read too much into it. You never know, a million things can happen to make someone stop texting, and jane could just be a friend.

    But even if she is his GF, then don't worry. There are plenty of people on this planet and you will find someone :slight_smile:
     
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    Update...
    Me:GET ME ALL YOUR KNOWLEDGE OF JOHNxJANE NOW I MUST KNOW
    Best Friend: Jane likes John and John likes Jane back, but their not going out. Why?
    Me: not going out huh... (explains conversation between me and john)
    Best Friend: Sorry dude...
    Me: </3

    Remind me never to crush on a straight guy again...
     
  5. not nessecarily his gf.

    my friends talk to other people on their phones all the time like if someone goes to the toilet they will look through their phone and see who theyre texting and start talking to them lol (well used to when i was younger). could just be friends :slight_smile:
     
  6. unknown17050

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    For the time being but the recent post by the current OP is stating officially that he is either Straight or possibly Bi. (Although, since he seems to be going for a woman and no recognizable knowledge in this post that says he likes men too, I am guessing he is on the straight side more.)
     
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    Thanks everyone for your support, I really appreciate it.
     
  8. Pat

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    Ehh, it's dangerous to go by the "he hasn't told me he's straight, so he could be bi" rule. I assume all guys are straight until they tell me otherwise. If he isn't even trying to balance you and this girl, then there's your answer. Keep the window of communication open, but test him occasionally also. Stop messaging him.. let him realize you're missing and see how long that takes.
     
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    You know...when I was younger communication seems to have been a whole lot simpler...just sayin'
     
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    I know that feeling... The one guy I completely adored for the last 3 years got his first girlfriend about a month after we became friends... :frowning2:
    You're lucky you're still only at the beginning of highschool though; you have a lot of time. I'm finishing highschool next week... (I'm 17) :frowning2: