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Signs that someone is crushing from afar

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by raze11, Sep 27, 2013.

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    There's this cute guy that I think might have a crush on me.So what are some of the obvious signs of another guy crushing on you from afar.
     
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    There are no obvious signs, and you will never no for sure unless he tells you directly. That said, here are my observations:

    He looks at you more than normal (i.e. most straight guys don't want to give a wrong impression) and pays special attention to what you're doing. Some guys will try to be discreet and only look at you when you're not looking at them. If you're good at observing with your peripheral vision, you might see that happening. In those cases, you will often see him turn away when you look at him. This can happen multiple times, which is a good way to check the first time wasn't a fluke. You might try smiling at him and see if he smiles back (at least a sign he's friendly).

    Ultimately, you will need to actually talk to him to get a better feeling for what he's thinking.
     
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    What particular signs are you noticing that make you think this? I don't think I guy's ever had a crush on me, so I don't know a heap... but I would guess they could by shy, insecure or possibly nervous around you... particularly if they don't know your orientation.... but then if they know your gay they might be a bit less subtle and smile at you / talk to you a lot...
    but then lots of people behave differently I guess...
     
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    Well he stares,smiles,and blushes every time he sees me.
     
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    Hmmmm
    It could be the case that he's interested in you. Go talk to him! See what he's like :slight_smile:
     
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    I will.Next time I see him I'm going to talk to him.