Well, my mother went beserk and took my clothes and pajamas. I got the courage to get some cosmetics and she apparently found my makeup while I was out. She hasn't said a word to me and I'm going to approach her about it soon. I cant understand why she does these things and this one really got to me. How should I approach her? What should I say? Any advice is helpful. :dry:
If you have anything you want to make sure you say, writing it down before hand can help. Try to be honest with her about how you feel (honor the magic of the I-statement).
Try to find out why she did it. The reasons can vary greatly. From homophobia to a fear that someone may hurt you. The fact that she did it secretly and didn't have a talk about it with you looks like she is lost and doesn't know what to do.