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Relationship advice

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by swimmertriangle, Oct 13, 2013.

  1. swimmertriangle

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    So I went to breakfast and hung out with an openly gay guy at my school today. I think he likes me and I like him back but I'm not sure if he likes me or not. Also, he thinks I'm straight. I feel like I can trust him so I don't have a problem telling him I'm gay, it's just I'm nervous and apprehensive because I've never even been in a relationship.
    I'm scared because I feel like if he doesn't like me back, even though I think he does, then I'll have wasted a lot of time over nothing... :bang:
    Any advice?
     
  2. resu

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    It's not a waste because you will still have someone to talk to you. Since he is out, he should not be surprised you might like him. It's much better than just staying quiet and thinking "What if?...."
     
  3. Nick07

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    yes, having a friend is never a waste :slight_smile: What about asking him for another breakfast or some other activity. He may take a hint without you saying anything...