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Progress With Crush!

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by theskyiseverywhere, Oct 20, 2013.

  1. theskyiseverywhere

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    So I was texting my (openly gay) crush and he thinks I'm straight. So I ask him if he would date me if I was gay. He said yes. So now I'm super duper excited! I hope things work out! I plan out coming out to him in the spring. Then I will tell him that I have major feelings for him. (!)
     
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    Why wait to spring? He may be dating by then and not be single. Imagine what he is thinking about that question and is probably going nuts waiting on you to ask him out. I wasted no time once I knew my partner was interested in me. By all means do what feels right to you because you know all the details we don't. I am so happy for you because I know that feeling! For me to feel it, I had to wait over 4 years.... Good luck! June
     
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    Im so happy for you! I might not have that much of good luck, but obviously you do, im jealous. I dont think u should wait. tell him now! The door my close soon so be careful! Good luck!!!
     
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    Well said June :slight_smile:

    If you think you're ready to take the plunge, no time like the present, remember there are a lot of people on here that would be very jealous of your situation, me includes! XD
     
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    You are soooo fortunate. I always fall for the straight ones and pull myself into emotional turmoil. Don't wait for spring, opportunities like these might occur like once in a blue moon since there aren't a lot of men who are interested in men in my social circle. Go for it.

    Hugs, and Good Luck!
     
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    Thanks for the the replies! I need to say that I'm not ready to come out yet. He will probably still date me though.
     
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    AWWWW :O
    That's so cute!
    Do what feels best for you :slight_smile:
    Personally I would build a friendship with the guy to strengthen the bond before initiating something, but you do whatever you think will work :slight_smile: I'm so excited for you :grin:
     
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    omfg that's soo cute. He says he likes you when he thinks your straight awww
     
  9. theskyiseverywhere

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    I know I'm like living a fanfiction or something.

    ---------- Post added 22nd Oct 2013 at 10:12 PM ----------

    Thank you! I'm excited for me too:slight_smile:
     
  10. If only I had that kind of luck... seriously that is a chance that so many wish for but will never get, just tell him. If anything, that question makes things obvious, if he wasn't interested he wouldn't say yes. Best of luck :slight_smile:
     
  11. theskyiseverywhere

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    Thanks bro!:kiss:
     
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    Sounds to me like you should just go in for the kill! He likes you. You like him. He's obviously still unsure of your sexuality so if you made the first move by telling him that you like him, all should go well! Good Luck! :slight_smile:
     
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    How do you suttily text random crushes? I can''t bring myself too get the number
     
  14. theskyiseverywhere

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    Is he in any of your classes, if you are in college? If he is, just say that you need help on an assignment or something so then you can get his number. Or you can just say you are bored and want someone to talk to:slight_smile:
     
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    I'm so happy for you! It's always so wonderful hearing when crushes work out!