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Gay... But closed...and should i go?

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by TheMrFatcow, Oct 25, 2013.

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Should I Flirt First, Just go for it, Don't Do it at all, or Don't try.

  1. Flirt first

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  2. Just go for it

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  3. Don't Do it at all

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  4. Don't think about it

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  1. TheMrFatcow

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    So i know this person let's call him Wyatt.

    So in ____ grade i met him in the second semester and we really "knocked it out of the park". In both of the classes that we sit next to each other all we did was talk and the teacher didn't mind. We even played chess where he "held" my hand when i was going to grab a piece and put in out of play. During the school year a incident happened where we had to go somewhere else. This led me to him sitting next to him again, and we kinda flirting for the first half of the time. The second time he knew that no one was looking so he rushed to grab my hand and held it for the rest of the time till we got out of school. We agreed to go out as "Boyfriends" during this time we did things together and a week later he told his parents which they disapproved of his sexuality what a shame i know right!, and he told me that we couldn't be doing this anymore or his parents would "kill him"
    Now next year, he is in my homeroom we sat next to each other for a while then got moved. During that time he made me laugh so hard that i almost pissed my pants, again we didn't pay attention in class. So now i don't know what to do it's the beginning of the second marking period and now i think i like him, should i go talk to him or something i have two classes with him. Any advice would be helpful. THANKS!
     
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  2. biggayguy

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    Talk to him. Talking can't hurt anything unless the teacher is talking. Just try not to get him in trouble with his parents. They might put him in a different school if they think you're together.
     
    #2 biggayguy, Oct 25, 2013
  3. TheMrFatcow

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    Well as another fyi, (sorry :rolle:slight_smile: he is not out to the school, and i'm at the age where people are just understand that being homosexual is completely fine.
     
    #3 TheMrFatcow, Oct 25, 2013
  4. TheMrFatcow

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    bump.
     
    #4 TheMrFatcow, Oct 26, 2013
  5. TheMrFatcow

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    #5 TheMrFatcow, Oct 26, 2013
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    Talking is still just talking. You just need to be really careful not to out him. Is there a drama club at school that you both could join? Maybe you could start a chess team at school. Then you could be together for the club. Teacher's like chess clubs.
     
    #6 biggayguy, Oct 26, 2013
  7. TheMrFatcow

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    Well me and him are really different people. I'm more like the REALLY NERDY and booksmart, while he is the sporty smart type. We don't have clubs like that because we are in middle school. I know right, so sad. Either than that we don't talk out of school and we really can't talk in school besides homeroom which is really hard because i'm shy and it would be embarrassing for him & me.
     
    #7 TheMrFatcow, Oct 26, 2013
  8. TheMrFatcow

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    #8 TheMrFatcow, Oct 27, 2013
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    What the both of you do doesn't necessarily has to get to his parents. As long as the both of you are willing, why not hehe. Btw sweet couple ^^!
     
    #9 RyanCJJ, Oct 28, 2013
  10. TheMrFatcow

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    #10 TheMrFatcow, Oct 28, 2013
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    b to the u to the m to the p. What does that spell? BUMP!
     
    #11 TheMrFatcow, Oct 29, 2013
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