Thank GOD + How do I get over embarrassment in sex?

Well, it really might not be much of a big deal to him. It might, understandably, be all in your head. Have you actually asked him about it or talked about the incident? After all, you are playing around the area that feces comes out so it should be expected that something might come up and you can't really help it. It's inevitable at some point.

 

We expect sex to look and feel like it does in the movies. In reality, it's messy and noisy. The only thing you can do is accept your insecurities and acknowledge that the other person feels equally as vulnerable and insecure. If you want something done a certain way, tell your partner. It takes out the guess work and they'll be grateful for the information.

 

Think of it this way: he's already committed to anal sex with you. Do you think the idea of getting a little poo on him is too gross? Hardly. I'd say you're free to relax. He may be a clean freak, but you tend to forgive people for happenings out of their control, especially if you care very much for them.

 

Well he had a condom on so his penis wasn't bare, but if he was really a clean freak, he would have put gloves on his hands before fingering you. Ah ha! See? He voluntarily stuck his finger in there without a glove. I don't think it bothers him.

 

That is actually very common. No big deal.

 

Data's right. Your top might be a clean freak but that didn't stop him from putting his cock and fingers up you ass. (Feels great, doesn't it?) As they say, "shit happens". We all like to be a clean as possible but that sometimes just goes with the territory. I personally always use a Fleet or 2 before anal. Not only do they do a pretty good job of cleaning out the lower part of your bowel but anal sex is more comfortable for the bottom because if you're cleaned out there's more room for whatever is going inside you. Otherwise you can get a bloated feeling.

 

it`s a common problem karl happened to me a couple of times freaked me out at first like yourself . but like other people have already said it didnt stop him humping you did it and you were both safe using condoms its much better once its stretched .