Complicated situation involving three guys

Ok so this is gonna be a loong post but bear with me please :/

I have a crush on a guy at my school. Let's call him C. I often catch c staring at me and then he looks away after about a second. I do the same a few times a day and get the same reaction. Occasionally when sitting next to him he would lightly wrap a few of his tigers around one of mine. Also one time after school, after mentioning that I straighten my hair every day before school, he said "isn't that generally though to as being quite, erm, effeminate?" And smiled a little while saying it. By the way, I'm not out to him but I am t nearly all of my close friend group. I don't Know whether he is straight, gay, bi or something else.

Doesn't seem that complicated? Just wait... I've known for about a year that a guy I really dislike but he doesn't realise this has a crush on me. Let's call him T. I only decided to start coming out a couple of months ago and I decided that I needed to be out to him and tell him that I like C to allow him to start getting over me. He took this as me saying I'm available and considering we hadn't spoken much previously, two hours afterwards, he invites me over to his house. You would assume that the solution would be to just go but not start anything. Not that simple - he has a history of coming onto guys he likes quite literally. So if I was to go, I would be scared out of my mind worrying about him trying to start something. Basically a really creepy guy. What I've done for now is to ignore all contact from him. Seems harsh but given the circumstances, me and one of my close friends (O) feel I'm justified in doing so.

To make things even more complicated, I came out to O because he is close friends with C. I also told O that I liked C which led O to come out to me and say that he likes C as well.

So my question is, how do I advance with C without upsetting O while removing T from the situation?:help:

 

Thanks :lol: so it's simply a case of coming out to C then seeing what happens from there
I'll do that then update you in a week or so

---------- Post added 31st Oct 2013 at 01:25 AM ----------

I'm not entirely sure what's happening here so I thought I would clarify :
Me and O have a crush on C
T has a crush on me

Looking back now I can see where the confusion was

 

Hmm, O isn't really my type so I don't think that would work as of now - there is no attraction for him so meh
I think I'm gonna come out to C and see what happens and I'll update you when I have more information(!)

 

Well I came out to him last Wednesday after school and he seemed fine with it . That was until about 1 hour later when T out of personal curiosity asked C whether he was gay/bi over Facebook. C put the two events together and knows I like him :bang: This made me seem kind of creepy. Also C said to T that he was straight but I don't think c would come out to t like that cause c hates t. C spoke to O about this who then told me. In short, he doesn't know I know he knows I like him. Also to make things even more complicated O told me he likes me. So what I'm planning is in the next week or so telling him I like him and getting a direct answer. He hasn't directly spoken to me so I'm guessing he is straight or is bi/ gay but doesn't like me like that but that's just my guess - will update in a few days