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If someone finds me "attractive" does that mean they like me?

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by Rasengan, Nov 2, 2013.

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  1. Rasengan

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    This "straight" guy I've been crushing on like hardcore turns out to be a bisexual and he also told one of my close friends he finds me attractive. Does this mean he likes me? Should i maybe ask him out? I noticed some things before he told my friend he found me attractive. Hes really flirty with me and stuff like that. If you want you can read my other threads because most of them are about him....lol. Anyway what does this exactly mean when he says he finds me attractive? Not sure what i should do here. I wont see him again until Monday at school so i have until then to sort out my thoughts.
     
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    Flirt back with him, ask him on a date or something :grin: I don't think it means they like you, but in this case I can bet that he does!

    Good luck!!!
     
    #2 dapulu, Nov 2, 2013
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    Its definitely a good start! Go for it :slight_smile:
     
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    Agreed, if he's openly bi and saying you're attractive / flirting, it seems pretty probable that he's interested :slight_smile:
     
    #4 WhiteShadows, Nov 3, 2013
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    Thanks guys. I think im going to write him a note and tell him how i feel if that doesnt sound too cheesy and cliche haha
     
    #5 Rasengan, Nov 3, 2013
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    I would strongly support that decision :slight_smile:
     
    #6 WhiteShadows, Nov 4, 2013
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    wow I wish that would happen to me. haha , talk to him more. find an excuse to touch him or maybe just do a little bit of 'sorry' i accidentally bumped into you haha
     
    #7 unknownjourney, Nov 5, 2013
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    Good luck with the letter and I hope all goes well for you :slight_smile:
     
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    If any of you were wondering this didn't work out how i thought it would. He told me he used to be a BiSexual however when he dated guys in the past he didnt feel comfortable with it and thats pretty much all that was said. He still continues to touch me allot and wink at me in the halls. I swear hes just purposely messing with my head now.
     
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    I would start flirting back with him a little and see where that leads and if you like where that's going, maybe you could ask him out then. :slight_smile: I think it's pretty obvious that he's into you if he's told your friend that he finds you attractive. :slight_smile:
     
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    Maybe he's playing hard to get.. or just plain not feeling that much...
    either way you can flirt back and make him be attracted to you xD
     
    #11 WhiteShadows, Nov 9, 2013
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    I think after he told me that i lost about 50% of intrest in him and am already getting over it lol if hes playing hard to get (which i doubt) its his loss. Dont feel like playing games.
     
    #12 Rasengan, Nov 10, 2013
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