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i like him, she likes me(best friend ever), he likes ???

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by thatconfusedguy, Nov 5, 2013.

  1. thatconfusedguy

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    Say I like this guy who shows very mixed messages (put his hands on my shoulders the other day :icon_bigg ). I can't act on it because I'm in the closet and he's either str8 or in the closet
    On the flipside my best friend (girl) likes me a lot like a lot a lot but I don't want to hurt her by telling her
    Any advice comments questions
     
  2. Saint Otaku

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    For the guy, nothing to be done there if you can't act upon forming a relationship except to maybe become friends with him to have a possible trusted buddy to come out to.

    For the girl, just tell her "I'm just too busy with school to deal with girls right now." It's simple, and, as she grows weary of you, the eventual coming-out will sting her less, if at all.

    Honesty is, of course, always an option.
     
    #2 Saint Otaku, Nov 5, 2013
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