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Worried in a Relationship

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by lilyblue89, Nov 8, 2013.

  1. lilyblue89

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    Has anyone else been in a relationship, and known that the other person was more into you then you were them???

    And if so, did you carry on with the relationship? and what happened? x
     
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    I've been in that situation. I carried on with it until I absolutely knew that it was something that I did not want to commit further to.

    I eventually told them. In my opinion, they acted rather rash and freaked out about it, but not everybody handles things the same.
     
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    Quite the opposite actually at the moment. It sucks just as much as the other person caring too much. My only relationship with a guy was like that. I felt sory for him so I continued dating him, which made me miserable. You shouldn't continue. It isn't healthy, and just as painful for you as it is for the other person.
     
  4. CharlieHK

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    If it annoys you, have a conversation with them. Sometimes people are simply not on the same page. And I had it shortly with my current partner, where I had to write on every note "This is not a break-up letter", but that insecurity has been overcome. Now we are both equally into each other.

    Also, I know when I’m INSECURE I tend to CLING to my partner more.