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How do I ask my friend to go to silver bells with me without it sounding like a date

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by MrSmooth, Nov 10, 2013.

  1. MrSmooth

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    She's my friend and well I am attracted to her but, I don't want it to sound like I'm asking her on a date just as friends how do I ask her to go with me
     
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    Re: How do I ask my friend to go to silver bells with me without it sounding like a d

    What is it?
     
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    Re: How do I ask my friend to go to silver bells with me without it sounding like a d

    Hmm this is tricky. I myself have been asked to do fun stuff with guys and they happened to have at least some romantic interest.. But those were guys I don't usually hang around with. If you're good friends than it will be much easier! If she doesn't know you're attracted to her it will be even more easier.

    Good luck :slight_smile:
     
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    Re: How do I ask my friend to go to silver bells with me without it sounding like a d


    In Michigan we have a thing called silver bells its by the capitol which is in Lansing MI, It's to celebrate the holiday season

    ---------- Post added 10th Nov 2013 at 01:28 PM ----------

    Well she doesn't know Thank God:icon_redf
     
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    She knows I'm trans but I wanna ask her to go to silver bells with me even though I think she's downright gorgeous and I'm really attracted to her how can I ask with out it sounding like I'm asking her as a date?
     
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    Re: How do I ask my friend to go to silver bells with me without it sounding like a d

    Hi there! Given that you are friends, and I'm assuming that she doesn't know about your attractions to her, you could simply ask her if she would like to join you.

    If she does know about your attractions to her, you can always qualify your question by making it clear that you are inviting her as a friend. But if she doesn't know, I wouldn't worry about it. :slight_smile:
     
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    Re: How do I ask my friend to go to silver bells with me without it sounding like a d

    Gosh I hate being overly shy but ill text her and ask her tonight
     
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    Go for it! :slight_smile:
     
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    Re: How do I ask my friend to go to silver bells with me without it sounding like a d

    Probably a little late, but good luck. :thumbsup:
     
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    Re: How do I ask my friend to go to silver bells with me without it sounding like a d


    She said yes(!)