So this guy I like(met him a month and a week ago), we've been talking for a while now. I see him at lunch everyday at school, we talk, chat on Facebook and we have seen a movie together once(2 weeks ago, made us closer we talk more often now than before) and tonight I sent him a message "Dude lets go out tonight im so bored" he says "Sorry I'm going out with my family tonight in 15 mins, sorry man" then I said "aww ok. have fun x" then he said "Some other time ;P cya" I don't know if I should be depressed that we didn't get to hangout or really happy that he said some other time with a wink and a tounge out emoticon. lol. He doesn't know I'm gay and I don't know if he's gay either. So what I'm really saying is that, does he really mean it when he said "some other time;P" ---------- Post added 23rd Nov 2013 at 07:18 PM ---------- Oh yeah, and how should I response to that without being too flirty. haha
He just seems like a nice person with a life. I usually respond to things I don't have much to say about with "okeedokee" because it's not as thoughtless and emotionless as "OK."
^ Good suggestion. Alright, okay, very well, so be it (all terms of recognition and understanding) can feel very cold. But yes, you're over-thinking this. He's a guy, you remember. We're simple.
haha yeah you're both right. I just really wanted to hangout with him that made me over think simple things but I do understand it.
You're probably over thinking it. How close of friends are you? What is your ideal relationship with this person? (Close friends, fwb, boyfriends, etc...)
You're a tad bit over thinking it...I had a guy send me ;P then I responded and it didn't go too well...
