Hi:smilewave I am always nervous and stressed for reason and for no reason . I get very shy and nervous when I have to talk to a stranger (especially men ) and I am not good in social life. :icon_redf In school most of the time I walk alone :icon_sad: I love to be alone but it hurts also :dry: . :help: :help: :help: :help: :help: plzz
Hi LOL , i love staying alone but not all the time for sure . I'm not a really a stressed person but when i get stressed , i just breath deeply and write down whatever bothers me. Try finding a friend who shares you the road when you're going home or to school (this is how i met my best friends ) or better ,one of your classmates . As you are a very shy person , don't introduce yourself to anyone without preparing , just imagine it in your head , put a plan and go for it . ---------- Post added 24th Nov 2013 at 02:28 PM ---------- OMG I've just realized that you're Syrian and as silver sparrow said , if you can manage seeing a therapist that would be great
Thanks silver sparrow and rayan (It's very good to find someone from the middle east ) my therapist traveled away :/ , maybe I explained my problem in a wrong way , I have a lot friends because they need me in school and homework etc ... I am nerdy . when we finish the class I walk alone ( ya they don't need me now ) :dry: Nobody loves to chat with me they do that only when they need something . I have a crush on a guy in school he is the arabic version of Darren Chris ( Blaine ) xD . I don't know him but he is one of my FB friends but I can't talk to him :/ .
OMG you are totally into GLEE For now try to find a friend who shares things with you ( other than study , maybe a hobby or something like that ) . I'm a nerd myself , but i've never been shy (thanx to my friends you are into music and stuff , so that would be a subject to start with that guy , you may start with sharing a video on FB , tag him and other friends asking them about their opinion or something , just show them that side of you ( the un-nerd fun side ) .... PS : don't expect anything beyond a friendship , it really hurts having feelings for a straight guys .
The bad thing is all of my friends have no Idea what is glee -_- and the type of music I love they don't love it :/ , I swear every day in class I feel Like I am with 7 years old classmates I will not try to get near that guy in anyway because after my heart is broken I really need love and I can't control my feelings so If we become friends I will fall in love with him very soon . I don't want to walk with anyone in the school till I find my true love which seems impossible . Oh god why do I have to go through all this painful and hopeless life :'( .
