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Is it okay to stop talking to someone if they hurt you?

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by Seanathan, Dec 9, 2013.

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  1. Seanathan

    Seanathan
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    Location:
    Frankfurt, Germany
    Gender:
    Male
    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
    So this guy lead me on, saying he was gay and was interested, and then he decided to go straight. He wants to be friends, but I don't want anything to do with him. Is this a legit reason or am I just being a b*tch?
     
    #1 Seanathan, Dec 9, 2013
  2. flyinhernikes

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    idk call me a bitch but a few girls have done this to me telling me they liked me e.t.c and then been like oh btw lol got a bf now.

    i think its fine, you dont need someone who leads you on.
     
    #2 flyinhernikes, Dec 9, 2013
  3. Foster

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    If you don't have a desire to be friends with him, then there's no reason you should feel an obligation to. Sometimes someone acts in a way that really bothers/hurts me, and I just stop talking to them.

    The way I see it is, if someone isn't making your life any better, why should they be in it? And if they are causing you stress/pain, you definitely have good reason to distance yourself. This guy was not honest about his intentions, and honesty is a vital part of any healthy friendship. I don't see how you can be gay and then suddenly decide you aren't.......
     
    #3 Foster, Dec 9, 2013
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