Hi all so last night we had our Xmas party for work, and this bar man that was working there well he was a real nice guy and we chatted and all night he flashed smiles at me and out of all the staff on the bar he always made the effort to serve me.. Well then today he been the only thing I can think of I don't even know if he's gay or not and couldn't ask as was with work and am not out to them, don't think they would be the supportive types, I just think I need to go back to find out and would just like some advice as what the hell to say, this is strange never felt so much for someone I don't even know so anyways I'm gonna stop rambling do you think it worth a shot?
Just go back to the restaurant and act natural. Buy a beer or something. Try to be calm about it and just observe how he acts, and be friendly. If you decide he's flirting or is super-extra-crazy-nice, maybe come back another time and ask him if he wants to hang out or something.
