So I mentioned this before but I have this crush about this very hot, nice, funny boy for months and me as well as Trevor (my imaginary friend, yes I'm serious) are tired of this. I love him but it's painful and obsessive, but not a lot. I can't get over it because he is in my choir class and can't stop seeing him. I want to meet other people but it's so especially being in the closet and all the open gay people are flamboyant and effeminate and swear, I'm also playing a confusing game of who's gay because I hear that people are gay, but that's all in my head, and I try to find gay cues but am so confused. Anyways, I want to get over him but a part of me won't let him go (he is to emotionally attached). He's so funny and nice that's why I love him a lot. Anytime I think of him my heart aches. Any suggestions, I'm willing to come if and only if someone asks me (because I hate giving things out of context), if they solve my "riddle", or I come out myself.
If you REALLY like him, you could just hang out with him / talk to him more and get to know him. That might give you a better indication of his orientation and whether or not you have a chance with him. Otherwise, you just need to talk to other people and meet new people as much as possible
I do like him and yeah that sound like an great idea to talk to him, but sometimes I can be socially awkward.