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My best friend (whom I like) just came out to me: What do I do?

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by G8house1, Dec 22, 2013.

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  1. G8house1

    G8house1
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    So I have known this guy, lets call him Harrison Pierce Thom, for about 4 years, but we have become really close in the last 6 months or so. I told him that I was gay about a month or so ago and tonight Harris came out to me, I was only the second person he has told and he also isn't ready for lots of people to know. I really like him, he is funny, much smarter than he takes credit for and I enjoy being with him. But I don't know if he feels the same and I don't know how to tell him... Any advice guys? I could use all the help I can get... :confused:

    (Harrison Pierce Thom is an alias btw)
     
    #1 G8house1, Dec 22, 2013
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  2. Silver Sparrow

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    Try to feel it out, but keep in mind he might not be ready for a relationship. Take it at his pace!
     
    #2 Silver Sparrow, Dec 22, 2013
  3. resu

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    That is quite a specific pseudonym, lol. I agree that you shouldn't take advantage of his vulnerable position. Just be there for him as a friend, but if things are really getting difficult for you to be impartial, then consider a calm way to express your feelings.
     
    #3 resu, Dec 23, 2013
  4. WhiteShadows

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    ^ Agreed
    Be his friend and be supportive in the mean time :slight_smile:
    You could make more suggestions for the two of you to hang out together if you want
     
    #4 WhiteShadows, Dec 23, 2013
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