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After my crushing rejection (see other thread) I'm looking to talk to people :(

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by A Person, Dec 23, 2013.

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  1. A Person

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    So after my little fiasco, explained in my other thread you can find in my statistics, I need people to talk to. People where I live are just frustrating me and making me sad....so if you want to talk please let me know here, I can give you contact stuff. I hope this doesn't come across as weird. I'm just alone and sad :frowning2: maybe it could lead somewhere, who knows.
     
    #1 A Person, Dec 23, 2013
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    As EC does not allow contact information to be shared except privately (Through Private Messages), and as you are a regular member and cannot Private Message anyone except staff members, unfortunately you cannot, at the moment, give anyone contact information without being banned (This is to preserve EC's atmosphere, protective of all of our members). Furthermore, EC is not a dating site; if I've misunderstood the quoted segment, then I apologize.
    However, we'd be happy to listen to you here. What exactly is frustrating you? What do you think you have immediate control over in your life that you could tweak or change in order to make your life less stressful? Are you talking to anyone about this in-person? As always, feel free to PM a staff member if you wish and we'll do our best to assist you.
     
    #2 LD579, Dec 23, 2013
  3. A Person

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    I am aware of the rules for forums thank you for the reminder. Im hoping to apply in the future for full member so I can PM other members. And honestly I feel like I have no control of anything
     
    #3 A Person, Dec 24, 2013
  4. WhiteShadows

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    You must be really kind of shook after your friend said he didn't want more than friendship. He was definitely sending messages otherwise... You should make sure you stay friends with him though, and keep cuddling him if he wants to.
    About meeting other guys, are there any LGBT youth groups near your area?
    The other option is just to socialise with new people (I take it you're still in school)
    You can also take up new hobbies and try to meet people like that.
    Let me know how you're going :slight_smile:
     
    #4 WhiteShadows, Dec 25, 2013
  5. A Person

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    Hey White good to see you. Things have been off and on weird and uncomfortable and then back to happy and fun with my friend. Its still confusing. I'm also feelings kind of unwanted all around so yeah :/. I asked a staff to look into groups in my area since my parents are nosy and im not really sure about the whole orientation thing. Unfortunately there is nothing directly in my area, there are some nearby but I can't do anything about because of my family. I know only one gay guy at school who I have no desire to be in a relationship with. He's not my type at all. I'm still foolishly dreaming of my friend having a sudden change in mind. I guess I'm looking for something or somewhere I can talk to someone my age....I need to vent extremely and be understood :frowning2:
     
    #5 A Person, Dec 25, 2013
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    :frowning2:
    If you apply to be a full member you can pm me :slight_smile:
     
    #6 WhiteShadows, Dec 25, 2013
  7. A Person

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    i applied waiting for the results! :grin:
     
    #7 A Person, Dec 25, 2013
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