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Help with a friend

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by Dexter Colton, Dec 30, 2013.

  1. Dexter Colton

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    I was over at my friends house a few days ago. When I was there my friend Justin told me that he was gay. We hugged it out and I told him I was gay to. The next day Justin called me and said that he was kidding about being gay. No joke shed tear then. He then said that he though I was joking to. Insert my fake laugh here. Then I said good bye. Should I not tell him or tell him running the risk of him not caring. Thanks in advance

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  2. Emberblaze

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    May as well tell him now. I mean, hell, he probably suspects it now, so just get it out in the open.
     
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    Is he known to play tricks like that? How did it feel when he told you? He might have actually meant it then got spooked.

    I'm also confused did you refute your statement as well or are you asking us if you should?

    Honestly I wouldn't take it back it's gonna come out eventually, unless you can't trust him to keep it under your terms then I say let it fly
     
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    Yes, you need to trust him before you really come out. Does he act homophobic? What about your other friends?
     
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    if he isn't actually gay, that was a pretty dick move of him to play...
    I think you should tell him and ask for the truth.
     
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    Thanks for the advice I will wait on him for a while