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Dating Website Fears

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by ninerw, Jan 1, 2014.

  1. ninerw

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    I joined a dating website and I had this great conversation with a guy last week. We talked about our music tastes (a big turn on/off for me) and what we are doing with our lives. It felt good because it was a two way street, we both replied and sent each other emails. Now, we haven't spoken in a week. I'm concerned he has lost interest. He gave me his number, but I am super freaked out that if I were to just text him out of the blue it would be weird.

    I don't want to be the obsessive type, but I kinda like this guy enough to at least get coffee with him. Should I text him or should I just let it play its course? I don't want to seem too needy...
     
  2. Randy

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    Literally sounds like what I went through this summer with all the fears and such :lol:
    Just text him. It sounds like he gave you his number for a reason.
     
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    I don't think it sounds obsessive if you send him a text and wait for a response. But if you send continuous texts and there's no response back, then it might not be a good sign!

    no harm in trying though :slight_smile:
     
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    Goddamn games players. I think he'll vcome around. S0rta flirting with a girl in a similar manner, bit of a power play. :The one with the least interest in a reslationship has the most power over it, I heard a chick say once.

    EDIT: Text this dude, get something out of it.