So I have really liked my best guy friend for a while now. I always get butterflies when i see his face and hear his voice, but there is one huge problem that is a major turn off for me...hes incredibly immature. Usually me and him are immature when hanging out together or with others, but its almost as if he doesnt know how to turn that off and at least be respectful of others. Like tonight I had a group of friends over including him, I had to step out for a few minutes and when I get back to all of them in my room, my laptop and my computer now have passwords (i never had them before) and once i finally got logged in, my background was changed, files were moved around, etc. Apparently he was going to change my browser settings to automatically go to porn sites, but one of my other friends convinced him otherwise. I mean its not a huge deal, but its essentially an invasion of privacy and that just wasnt ok. But other than his immature behavior he isnt too bad. So any advice for this? Like should i just try and move on? Or give him a chance if it ever gets to that? (Btw Im not sure if hes gay and he thinks im bi...if that info helps at all lol)
I've really liked a guy who is generally pretty immature or just plain weird for quite a long time now. I know he's not gay or bi so my only option has been to try to get over him. I've found that thinking about how annoying the immaturity is helps to override the other things you think and feel. It may not work for you to do this but there's my "method".
First try to be polite and tell him you don't appreciate this. Be persistent, and if he keeps at it, which shows he doesn't respect you, you should tell him to start acting like an adult, not a teenager.
