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Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by Finally out, Jan 10, 2014.

  1. Finally out

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    I'm 17... I've known I was gay since I was 10. Just this week I finally came out to my best friend. She was unbelievably supportive and it was a completely different experience from the first person I told (basically a complete nightmare). But anyways my friend tells me she's been confused about her sexuality for a while now and doesn't know if she's straight or gay... I've had the hugest crush on her for over a year now but I don't want to tell her cause I'm worried that it might somehow ruin our friendship... She's the only friend I have that knows I'm gay and is perfectly okay with it... What should I do?
     
  2. BookDragon

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    Personally I think I might find questioning my sexuality and then having my friend tell me they had a crush on me to be a bit overwhelming all at once...at the very least I'd let her figure herself out before you go telling her...
     
  3. Skaros

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    Don't rush things with her. She needs to get used to her sexuality before she can get into any 'relationships'. Try comforting her for now.