(Disclaimer I'm 17 years old.) Well all of the gay/bi guys that I know only have 1 thing on their mind, sex! The way I see ALL relationships isn't just trying to have sex with someone, it is about getting to know them and falling in love. I might just be a hopeless romantic but can anyone post stories about you and your partner/spouse or one of your friends. I have "dated" two girls and that is about it. One lasted three months, was long distance, never kissed her, yet the best time of my life; the other was five days, my first kiss, a happy time in my life but were still friends and go to school together+hang out all the time. I really don't know why I felt that you needed to know my relationship background but oh well...